Learn How To Confidently Screen for The Right Man So You Finally Feel Secure In Getting The Love You Want. End The Struggles of Dating and Stop the Heartache of Being in the Wrong Relationship.

How is all this possible?

         What is the key to raising your deserve VALUE to a man and learn to date by trusting what you want and how you feel?

          The key is to never settle for a man who won’t fulfill your needs, love you completely or who isn’t 100% into you!

         The key is to know HOW to screen for love so you can finally feel in control of your love life and change the course of your “love life” forever.

         It’s a powerful and effective tool for preventing heartache and screening for love that will help you AVOID the wrong relationships and confidently find the One!

         It will change your love life because when you use it right away, it will prevent you from making the most dangerous mistakes so many women make when they meet a man they are attracted to.

         These mistakes create a negative pattern in dating and set you up for disappointment and failure.

          These mistakes mean you fall for a man who can’t decide how he feels about you, or doesn’t know where he wants to take the relationship.

         You end up feeling frustrated, confused, angry and hopeless and feeling as though you want to give up on the whole thing.

         So what’s keeping you from finding the right man and getting the love and commitment you want?

 A Step-By Step How-to Guide for Choosing the Right Partner: How to Date for Relationship Success and Find a Man Who is Ready for Commitment, Completely in Love with You and 100% Devoted to Your Happiness.

Mistake #1: You lack clarity on what you need and fall into chemistry.

         We think we know the kind of person we want to love, but we don’t have nearly enough clarity on what kind of qualities will really make us HAPPY or HOW to screen for the right partner who is ready, able and willing (RAW) for love.

         We make the classic mistake of falling into attraction or chemistry without compatibility and end up in a relationship where all our needs and desires are not being met. Get lost in the potential of the relationship and mistakenly believe that LOVE should be enough to make it work. A huge myth is the belief that LOVE will change him, or you, or in any way overcome the circumstances of the relationship. But love will never compel someone to change ‘who they are’ or what they ultimately want. No relationship can last or thrive with this kind of compromise.

          By now, you are emotionally attached and maybe even exclusive. You have invested your time and your heart only to discover you want more than he is willing to give. He loves you but he’s just not ready. He isn’t sure about how he feels about you to make this forever or never wanted commitment in the first place.

         Falling into attraction alone is the reason why relationships start out promising, but become difficult, disconnected or disenchanting.

          Now, you face the decision of letting go of the man you love but who isn’t choosing you.  Starting over is always difficult and very sad. But you know you will not settle for anything less than a man who is absolutely crazy in love with you and claiming you all for himself.

         Another devastating scenario in failing to qualify the right man before you put your heart on the line is discovering he isn’t who you thought he was!

         You leaped into enthusiastic attraction before you really knew him- found yourself with a toxic jerk or inadequate man. With the toxic man you wonder how you could have been so easily manipulated or duped. But be kind to yourself, it is likely you just weren’t aware of HOW a toxic man behaves or the questions to ask to invite this kind of man to reveal his true self.

         It HURTS to feel MISLED! You understandably feel sad and frustrated. You are unsure how you will find the strength to start all over or ever TRUST again.

         Or there is the nice guy who just doesn’t have it all together. He is simply lacking what it takes. He isn’t capable of giving you what you need to feel happy, secure, adored, fulfilled and loved in the relationship. So many women blame themselves and question if they are enough or doing enough. You may make mistake of TRYING harder to fill in the blanks but this is exhausting and futile. Rather than pulling all the weight you want a man you can look up to, be proud of and admire who is contributing to the relationship.

         All this happened because you didn’t know how to progressively screen a man over time through all the stages of relationship to ensure the love and commitment you want. 

         But with the right tools and knowledge you can easily flag and avoid immature, toxic, unavailable, indecisive, inadequate or commitment-phobic men. And you can set your intention for the kind of man you do want!

Mistake #2:Your Deserve or Worthiness Level is low.

         Big disappointments and losses in love can trigger the FEELING of not being good enough. All of us have been wounded in the past with messages that we are not okay, when in truth we are perfect just as we are.

         This experience of conditional love teaches us that in order to get love we want we must be good and giving. Women are taught to be giving, helpful, polite and accommodating.

         But all this giving backfires when it comes to men!

Has this ever happened to you?

         Everything is going great – you are madly in love, spending all this time together and he suddenly withdraws or changes how he feel about you? Ouch! You feel confused, shocked and hurt. How did this happen!!!!??

         When we carry the underlying message of unworthiness we TRY too hard at love: we give too much and make the mistake of making a man the center of our world.

         The moment we give our whole heart in love, our hormones kick in and we put him first. This isn’t conscious. We just FEEL so GOOD and are so excited that we want to spend time with him and give to him.

         But as this happens, a man LOSES his feelings for you and instinctively wants to RUN. That is because all this “giving” looks like initiating, controlling, manipulating and needing a man.

         Worse yet, if you are EXCLUSIVE with him, especially when he knows he’s not meeting your love needs, it makes him think less of you. He views your giving and trying at love as desperation and neediness and his attraction goes away.

What makes a man go crazy for a woman is that fact that he can’t capture her easily!

         In essence, a woman who is at the center of her own world and put herself first. You must be a woman who knows her VALUE and is confident and relaxed in her ability to RECEIVE love and attention.

          And you can’t FAKE this! Without feeling worthy deep down, you cannot become the irresistible, relaxed and self-assured woman a man cannot get enough of.

         Even the least self-aware man can FEEL when a woman is emotionally attached, “easy” or “needy” no matter what she says or does.

         It is almost impossible to feel relaxed, secure and worthy of love if you keep have negative experiences with men.

         Changing this means claiming your inherent worth by practicing self-love and self-acceptance. When you act from the assumption that you are lovable you will naturally FEEL assured that a man will and MUST love you as well.

         From self-acceptance comes the natural letting go of self-improvement or over giving in order to deserve a man’s love, affection and attention.

         If he is not loving you, adoring you, supporting you and treating you as special you know he is NOT a RAW Man and therefore not worthy of your time or affections. Then instead of falling into the over-giving pattern you begin to trust letting him go in favor of a man who has the capacity and desire to be generous with his love.

         Because you FEEL WORTHY just as you are – you trust that lasting love is possible for you and easily let go of anyone or anything that doesn’t have the potential for happiness and real love.

Mistake #3: You Are Dating for the Wrong Reasons

         In dating women make the mistake of trying to be liked, funny, attractive, compelling, intelligent, appealing, needed and desired that the focus shifts over to pleasing a man, rather than pleasing ourselves.

         And all this looks like chasing, needing and wanting – which feels like pressure to a man! But once you STOP trying to GET a man, he naturally wants to WIN you over.

         To snag a RAW Man you must CHANGE HOW you date. You will learn how to date for enjoyment as you LOOK for love. Then, dating is FUN while you figure out if he is a committed, high quality man who is perfect for you.

         Here’s a little SECRET that will change your life! - Men date to date, not to get married. They date to have fun; they date to impress you and gain your admiration; they date because it feels good to take credit for making you glow with happiness and hear your words of appreciation; and yes, they date for pleasure and the possibility of sex.

         Men know they can get this easy or with effort. It’s all about them and they do not feel bad for “selfishly” dating with the attitude of ‘what’s in it for me?’ Yet, when I man notices he has met a “real catch” he will step up his game and be 100% focused on working to EARN the right to enjoy your delicious company.

         The secret is to DATE with the process and the END purpose in mind!  The Dating Process is about FEELING safe, relaxed, happy and adored; and fun and excitement. The Dating Purpose is the bigger motivation of why you are dating: for love, marriage, family or commitment.

         As you commit to a dating for FUN and enjoyment, a man relaxes and shows you who he is. It takes the PRESSURE OFF so he feels naturally attracted and easily drawn to you.

         Because you are enjoying dating – you can relax, build confidence in yourself and feel encouraged in your quest for love. You don’t have to WORRY anymore, trying to figure out what he is feeling or thinking. And you are no longer AFRAID of losing him because the onus is on him to KEEP YOU.

         A man can feel the pressure you’re feeling to have a boyfriend, and he will feel pressured by you. If you are chasing him or obsessing over him, initiating contact or over-giving he won’t respect you and he won’t see you as a prize he has to earn. If he feels you NEEDING him and instinctively run, put you in friend mode or take advantage of you to meet his own needs.

So, here are the scenarios!  

1.  He thinks your “hot stuff” (and you are) so he’ll charm you into bed. He will take advantage of your beautiful feminine heart and body while soaking up all the energy you are putting into him. And after he enjoys seducing you he will promptly disappear by withdrawing or not making future plans.

2.  He will make you his friend.He likes you and enjoys your company so quasi-dates you, kisses you, and if you allow it will has sex with you. He may “love you” but he did not actually FALL IN LOVE with you. You will believe you are in a relationship but you are not. You are the filler girl he will enjoy until a woman he meets a girl he can really fall for comes along and will promptly dump you.

3.  He will instinctively back away from you.  You sense him backing away and you feel afraid, panicked and begin to chase. You obsess trying to figure out what went wrong and start texting, calling and emailing because you are trying to “fix” the misunderstanding. But all this figuring out and fixing sends of the “vibe” of obsession and desperation, and he is immediately repelled. So he runs away.

         Imagine instead, you know you have OPTIONS and you aren’t falling for him before you have decided he has earned exclusive rights to your heart by giving you all the love and commitment you desire. So until then, you are enjoying your freedom and your life by dating several men and putting your happiness first.

         Dating for enjoyment shifts the balance of power in your favor. You are deciding if he is worth keeping first and foremost because he is either adding VALUE to your life or he is not. And secondly because he is either consistently demonstrating that he is the man for you over the long haul or he is not. 

         By dating with the desire for your enjoyment and well being first a man sees your VALUE, so he FEELS attracted and begins showering you with support, affection and attention. Because you are keeping your options open and really qualifying if he is the one for you, this makes you more valuable and appealing. And you feel powerful instead of helpless.

         Dating becomes all about feeling GOOD and your confidence and faith grows with every positive experience. You easily say YES, to what feels good and start saying NO with what feels “icky” or isn’t what you want. You are in control because you aren’t waiting for him to choose you but deciding whether or not you want to choose him!  

         You have boundaries and standards; and you know exactly what you want, so you don’t get overly attached to one man. All those old feelings of desperation, fear and uncertainty are gone because you don’t invest your heart or commitment until he has invested his. You take your time to really see who has real relationship potential.

         Only a man who is consistently making you feel safe, happy, adored, cherished, special and protected will win your heart and devotion. And this reality is you can land a truly wonderful man and a fulfilling love relationship.

Here’s how........

The 3 Mistakes as to WHY you haven’t
Attracted the Man of Your Dreams....yet.

Introducing the Secret that Eliminates Heartache By Helping You Date Confidently and Open Yourself to Real Love.

 

In The RAW Man program I will walk you through each and every step of the screening process… from meeting men to deciding which ones to keep and which ones to tactfully let go. You’ll see how easy it is to let all these men TAKE CARE OF YOU and help you find the one right man that will make you his forever.

This Entire Program is Available RIGHT NOW, And You’ll Receive:

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       Because I want as many women as possible to benefit from this program, I’ve priced it at only 1 easy payment of $49.97… NOT original price of $99! and it comes with my better-than-money-back “I’ll take all the risk” Guarantee. 

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       I care about you, and I want you to have the amazing love life you deserve. (And yes, you can have it… and yes, you do deserve it!)

       I want you to avoid train wreck relationships that break your heart and destroy your faith in love.

       I’m 100% confident I can help you have the relationship of your dreams… and that this program is the “secret screening tool” that will help you get in front of Mr. Right.

        And because I’m so confident, and because I care so much about you having the relationship you want, I’d like to let you try this program RISK FREE. Here is how it works:

         You can begin using my “RAW Man” program on your computer starting right now. Simply try it, and if you like it and see how the knowledge will give you the love you want (as I know it will), then you can keep learning from it… and you’ll be billed automatically.

         If you decide it’s not for you - for ANY REASON - simply let me know within 7 days of your purchase. I’ll remove your access to the program and refund all your money immediately.

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         I know you’ll begin to see RESULTS… and an immediate change in your love life.

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         It’s time you starting feeling desirable, worthy of love, confident, and completely enthusiastic and excited about dating and relationships. No more dreading dates or feeling hopeless but finally getting the secure, fulfilling and committed relationship you want.

         I truly want to help you have the LOVE relationship you want. The amazing and courageous women from my private coaching practice have been using these tools to dramatically transform their love lives and I want you to experience the benefits that were – up until now- limited to one-on-one coaching.  So take advantage of this exclusive offer.

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How To Know If This Program
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          If you’ve got lots of fantastic men in your life who adore you, lavish you with attention and are not only ready for commitment but want to marry you, and who YOU like, then you don’t need my RAW Man Program.

         But if “dating,” feels hard and discouragingand heartache is dragging you down and making you question if any good men even exist or lose faith that love is even possible for you– The RAW Man will help you quickly have the kind of fun, worry-free and ecstatic love life you’ve always dreamed of.

          You’ll stop thinking about past love failures because you’ll have all sorts of men to choose from who make you feel special, sexy and adorable. You’ll stop feeling needy, deprived and desperate and no longer be a target for all types of unhealthy, toxic or unavailable men.

         By saying “NO” to men who aren’t completely lavishing you with love, support, affection, attention and support – you can STOP settling and start feeling confident and worthy to find your “Yes” man.

         If you find yourself with a man who’s “not sure” what he wants with you, or how he “feels about you”then you absolutely need this program. When you finally start to believe how valuable and precious you are through the Tools and guidelines you’ll get in this program, he will finally “sit up and take notice” or watch you walk your fabulous self out the door.

         If you want to take back your power to choose and have a man realize that to have ALL of you – he has to step up or lose you for good. But you’ll do this without drama, ultimatums, drawn-out fights or “talks” about your relationship. You will do this by living your VALUE and only accepting the best of everything.

         If you’re with a man who tells you he “loves you” but is still hung up on another woman or worse… is actually SEEING someone else… the classic unavailable man - then you need The RAW Man NOW! When he realizes that he can’t have ALL of you while he will have to decide which of the many women he wants to spend time with, he’ll figure out very quickly what he wants… and so will you.

          You may even decide that he’s not the right man for you after all. But if that happens, you’ll already be on your way to finding the one good man who will make you his and love you like you deserve.

         With the screening techniques you’ll learn from theRAW Man, you will become a powerful, confident woman a good, loving and ready man CHASES, and desires to capture.

         He will see that you VALUE yourself and only accept the best and this is VERY compelling to a man. He’ll realize that he won’t be able to have you all to himself until he puts a ring on your finger or gives you the relationship you REALLY want. So, if he is an UNRAW man his laziness and true colors will show and if he is RAW he will fight for the right to claim you.

 

My STORY: The Pain & Desire that

Inspired the RAW Program

         If you are anything like my clients or myself you have spent years TRYING AT LOVE. You have been trying to attract love, keep love, avoid the pain of love, and to feel good enough for love. And you are tired of the disappointment, loneliness and heartache.

         I wasted years loving men who didn’t know how to love and feeling not good enough. I mistakenly fell in love with potential, with appearances, with security and with the dream of love.

         Motivated by the pain of loss and disappointment I discovered that I needed to completely transform my relationship with love: I needed to know how to screen for the right partner and how to BE the right partner so I could attract Soulmate love.

         Now, I finally feel worthy of love and feel a happiness, contentment and fulfillment that had previously eluded me. By breaking the patterns that were holding me back from love, I now have a clear irresistible path for a real love, Soulmate relationship to enter my life.

         It is my heartfelt desire as a Coach to help you avoid future heartache and claim your worthiness so you can finally experience the love you truly deserve and desire.

         I invite you to avoid my mistakes and learn from my successes – so you can have the love you desire and deserve. The RAW Love system has worked for me and so many others, so I know it can work for you to!

The RAW Love Program Success Stories

         “You may not know it, but you're the reason for the positive changes in my life. You have helped me take things to a whole new direction. After years of being alone and distrusting men, I am finally open to allowing love back into my life. You are truly inspiring! You're so open, caring, loving and generous. And your love is infectious. Thank you! ”  Jackie E., Calgary, AB

         “Mary Jane your Love Coaching has helped me tremendously! I have been standing my ground with an open heart. I am letting go of my agendas and truly just enjoying my time in my new relationship. I'm not restricting myself anymore or controlling the way I feel. I have told many of my girlfriends about our discussions regarding men and love. Interestingly, many of them are intrigued by my "newfound wisdom" and are putting the suggestions to practice. I am feeling very loved and loving. I am doing my best to be positive and open to what gifts the universe has in store for me”. Love, Raena W., Edmonton, AB    

          “My life has evolved in ways that I am truly grateful for - thanks to you! Being able to develop the trust and belief in myself, as well as assisting in transforming all my challenges, old beliefs and patterns into more positive energy, could not have been accomplished without your guidance.  All the tools you have provided that have enabled me to move forward are invaluable. It feels so good to be where I am inside myself - right now. Thank you, Thank you!” Blessings, Char, Calgary, AB

          “I tried therapists and they all were effective in dealing with certain relationship issues but this is the only process that opens up the heart. I feel like a new and lovable person with possibilities shining all around! Love you Mary Jane.” Jill S. Calgary, AB

          “I am (now) someone I never thought I would be. I am open, self-aware and I truly believe that love is possible for me. Before we met, I did not believe love could happen for me. Now, I am open to love and I finally love myself completely.” Rosanna S., Calgary. AB

The RAW Man is a proven screening system to support you in attracting the love of your life! It teaches you to find a man who is ready for a relationship, and able and willing to love and screen out the rest!

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